If you want something a "Certain Way" ~ you need to do what needs to be done to MAKE things "that way"
If you want someone to be apart of your Life – you need to care enough about them to play a mutual role
If you want Change in your Life – you need to do what
it takes to make those changes HAPPEN!
If you want to accomplish or achieve – you need
to do what is REQUIRED.
Nothing “happens” when YOU aren’t doing what YOU
need to do and what YOU are supposed to be doing.
There are ALL types of PEOPLE, with all types of
CHEMISTRY, and varying levels that we are capable of interacting & becoming
INVOLVED with each other
You need to mutually realize, understand and
ACCEPT it~
While everyone else is living their lives, making
love, and making FUTURE PLANS you are going to be just following and watching
someone ELSE’S LIFE that has nothing to DO with the Potential that YOU COULD
have HAD! And it is deliberately your
own fault…
Spin the Wheel, choose a lifestyle, set your
standards, stop keeping up with the Jones that are not even very happy, and
decide what YOU want in the WAY that you want it, what YOU enjoy and then who
makes you feel comfortable & whose company that you enjoy enough to SHARE
those things with.
There are advantages to being MARRIED &
advantages to being ALONE
Being MARRIED means Trust, Commitment, Loyalty, Partnership, Growth, Healthy Directions, Future
Being ALONE involves Limitless Experiences, Experimentation, No Hassles, No Explanations, No Limits, No Compromise, No Sacrifice
Being MARRIED means Trust, Commitment, Loyalty, Partnership, Growth, Healthy Directions, Future
Being ALONE involves Limitless Experiences, Experimentation, No Hassles, No Explanations, No Limits, No Compromise, No Sacrifice
It isn’t worth it to throw away your Freedom when
you are alone UNLESS you are in LOVE!
Every Person should be capable of living their
independent lifestyle with self-sufficiency & self-reliance & do their
personal best within human limits.
When people MERGE LIVES & decide to partner
toward marriage – in a Healthy Relationship it starts with TWO strong,
intelligent, independent individuals that DECIDE to stay together (not HAVE to
stay together for Life Support) because they WANT to and because they LOVE each
OTHER. If those capable individuals no
longer LOVE each other, they can live their lives independently.
The ABSENCE of this Concept is what leads to ALLIMONY and/or GOVERNMENT ASSITANCE, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, MURDER-SUICIDES.
The ABSENCE of this Concept is what leads to ALLIMONY and/or GOVERNMENT ASSITANCE, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, MURDER-SUICIDES.
When you are not in LOVE and you share your TIME,
your Time isn’t worth spending on someone that wastes your time, doesn’t CARE
about YOU - OR the time you spend, and there isn’t genuine interest and MUTUAL
ENJOYMENT.
When you decide to MAKE a commitment & take
yourself & that person SERIOUSLY- it should be at least worth it & the
person isn’t going to betray your trust.
Trust is one of the most rare qualities available anymore. It isn’t worth throwing away on someone that
wants to cop a feel, and doesn’t have respect for the decision you’ve made to
make a commitment or the LIFE you have going on.
When you fall OUT of Love - this simply means… You are not SOUL MATES.
Mourn, get past it and
NEVER GIVE up your Freedom for someone that isn’t serious about commitment.
